I started out, like most, with a keen interest in the unknown, watching paranormal shows and feeling envious that these investigators get to feel the rush of endorphins so regularly. I wanted to do that. I wanted to explore haunted locations and experience the fear that is so prevalent on these investigations. Fear was a big part of it for me; I love being afraid. I would watch Childs Play and IT when I was 7/8 years old. My threshold for fear was extremely high so I needed to chase that buzz.
I went on my first public investigation in 2012. Looking back it was a complete mess, but at the time I was so excited. One thing I noticed was that everyone seemed to be psychic, or at least sensitive, attributing every breathing issue or dizzy spell to a spiritual connection. I just stood there in the dark wondering when I would get to experience this sensation, sure, I felt dizzy occasionally but that was because I was standing in the dark on uneven floorboards. There was a lot of standing, lots and lots of standing, and calling out to the spirits to do something. Nothing was happening. Then we heard footsteps above us, heavy and menacing. Everyone in the room gasped and started to cling to each other, pointing to the ceiling and shhing the person who was most audibly excited. The event host quickly said, ‘It’s just the hotel guests in the upstairs bedroom. We only have access to the ground floor as it’s still a working hotel.’ I felt a collective sigh as the most activity we got all night was from the living, not the dead, so we all shuffled back into our original stance and continued to wait. Nothing.
I started to wonder when I would hear the disembodied voices and when the grabbing of clothing from unseen forces would start. I felt duped. This was nothing like on TV. I knew I didn’t want to do an Ouija board, so when they asked if I wanted to sit around the dimly lit table I quickly declined. I saw enough films to know that nothing but possession and demons come from those menacing boards; I didn’t want to be involved with that……so I took a safe spot 5 feet away from the board. Demons be gone!!
The night ended abruptly when the hotel manager kicked us out because people in our group kept turning out the lights in the hallway which was considered a health and safety hazard. It was still a fun and interesting night, but I had nothing to compare it to; I needed to go on another investigation.
In 2016 I came across a Facebook post from a paranormal events company asking for new team members. I replied to the advert, expressing my passion for the paranormal and a few weeks later I was driving to Pontefract to host my first event with two other team members. The entire three-hour journey I heard, ‘I can’t believe this is going to be your first investigation with us. You are really being thrown in at the deep end….this place is terrifying.’ I’m not going to lie, the PR for 30 East Drive was/is terrific, the poltergeist Fred takes no prisoners, and the activity is so consistent that Ouija boards are banned. I was terrified.
Upon arrival, it looks like your typical 1950s council house, notably average looking from a distance. Under the protection of daylight, I had a false sense of security, so I didn’t feel too anxious when I entered the house and started preparing for the guests to arrive. I remember walking upstairs, holding on to the banister for support as I had been told stories of people being pushed, and I felt a strange heaviness that I hadn’t felt before. I walked around the three bedrooms and wondered how on earth I was going to manage sleeping here overnight, I didn’t sleep well at the best of times, let alone with the added threat of a malevolent spirit. Better crack open the red bull.
Once we had welcomed the guests and ran through the rough schedule for the night, it was time for lights out. I felt so vulnerable, I couldn’t see very well in the dark (I didn’t realise how badly I needed glasses at night), so everything kind of blurred and I couldn’t make out any distinguishable features. Again, it was lots of standing and waiting….waiting and standing. Not much really happened. Many phone apps and gadgets were being used, but I wasn’t sure whether any responses were paranormal or just glitches in the technology. Paranormal TV shows made me believe that ghosts are just ready and waiting to interact with us; looking back I now realise how narcissistic my thinking was. Spirits or ghosts don’t owe us anything; they aren’t there to perform for us and act as our own personal adrenaline shot.
I would define my views as a sceptical believer. I can appreciate that there are things that happen in this world that we will never fully understand…..UnDeRsTaNd. (Zak Bagans reference, don’t come for me) However, I think we sometimes conclude that something is paranormal because we so desperately want to find meaning and order in this world. I am not a psychologist or scientist so there are areas in the paranormal field that I will never be able to explain. Still, I think it is my responsibility as an investigator to actively pursue the route of rational explanation. Once every bit of activity has been debunked and explained, there is no more room for interpretation, thus creating a more rational and forward-thinking investigator. If something inexplicable happens during an investigation, it is much more rewarding. It is like spending your life drinking skimmed milk, then suddenly trying full fat. You don’t want a watered-down investigation, you want the good stuff, and that is what I think it feels like since becoming more skeptical with my approach.
I spent about 8 months with the events team before I decided to leave for personal reasons. I learnt so much from working in the team. I am a people watcher and an observer by nature and I find human behaviour fascinating. One thing I observed is how a person’s desire to experience the paranormal can sometimes mould their experience. There are many apps and gadgets that investigators like to use to have a ‘conversation’ with spirits, such as the Alice app or the Ovilus. Both devices have a large database of words that can supposedly be manipulated by the spirits so that they can chat with us. Sometimes, words can pop up that are significant to the investigation, but more often than not investigators may be experiencing Apophenia. Apophenia is, ‘The tendency to perceive a connection or meaningful pattern between unrelated or random things.’ I have seen the journey people go through to get a word to mean something:
Gadget: HOT……..DOWN
Investigator: Hot….were you burned in a fire……the fireplace DOWN stairs…..did you burn in the fireplace downstairs?
It is fascinating to observe how we as investigators try to connect the dots. It makes me wonder how many stories are being passed down throughout the years that were constructed in the same manner. Are we passing hearsay and assumption off as fact? How have investigators altered history and how can we preserve factual information and historical accuracy?
My journey as an investigator is unique to me. No two people will investigate or experience things in the same way as we are all humans with complex emotional and psychological differences. Sceptics and believers are both valid and important in furthering the field of paranormal research. We can learn valuable things from both sides, the believer in me wants to think that there is more to life than what we can see. How boring if this was it?
My paranormal journey is just getting started, there are some exciting things happening this year and I have found my paranormal tribe. I love the people I work/investigate with, they have really helped me grow as a person and become more confident in my own voice, when my imposter syndrome is telling me I dont deserve the good things that happen to me. I don’t even know why I wrote this post, I just wanted to spend a few hours of my day doing something I love – talking about the paranormal.