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Reincarnation is the belief that after we die our soul can begin a new life in a new body. Like a fresh start, metaphorically wiping the slate clean and starting all over again without any knowledge of our previous existence. Children have been recalling details from ‘past lives’ for thousands of years but in the western world the belief in reincarnation is wholly dismissed. In Asia however, where the idea of being born again is strongly adhered, there have been a large number of reincarnation cases involving children and the evidence to back up these claims is startling.

Ian Stevenson, MD, spent over 40 years researching the ideology around reincarnation up until his death in 2007. He mainly focuses on children as he believed they had less reason to make stuff up, and specifically children from Asia as children from the western world, due to rejecting the idea of reincarnation, were often stifled by their parents beliefs.

 

Out the 2500 children he studied almost half of the cases were objectively validated and supported the idea of reincarnation. He found a pattern among the children that could help identify future cases of past life experiences and could help differentiate between an over active imagination and a genuine case of reincarnation.

1) As soon as the child can communicate they reject their family and name. 

Children will often be heard saying that their family is not their real family and that their real family live in a different location, often mentioning a town or place that the child has never been to. The child will also be able to confidently recount the names of their past life family and describe the house he or she grew up in. Often these details are the ones that are used to validate the claims of reincarnation.

2) Recalling traumatic deaths. 

Ian found that in over 50% of cases the children could recall a traumatic or premature death from their previous life and if there was a specific would through either a gun or knife wound, there was usually a scar or birthmark that coincided with these claims.

3) Child knows names of people they have never met.

In cases where they child is able to meet their past life family the child is able to identify the names of everybody as well as revealing secrets and information that only the family would have known. As a result the family from the past life often accept the claims that the child is in fact their deceased relative. A long lasting bond is usually established between the child and family.

4) Gender usually stays the same.

In 90% of cases the child remains the same sex that they occupied in the previous lifetime. Personality traits and preferences are also mostly the same from one incarnation to another.

5) Physical appearance can remain similar.

Ian Stevenson studied Suzanne Ghanem in the late 1960’s, when she was a small child. At 16 months of age, Suzanne pulled the phone off the hook as if she was trying to talk into it and said, over and over, “Hello, Leila?” The family didn’t know who Leila was. When she got older, Suzanne explained that Leila was one of her children and that she was not Suzanne, but Hanan. A photograph of Hanan was available, but it wasn’t until Stevenson revisited Suzanne 1998 that he found that Suzanne, now a grown woman, had the same facial features as her past incarnation.

Hanan and Suzanne look very similar.

Hanan and Suzanne look very similar.

 

Below is a documentary about a young boy called Cameron who believes he grew up and died in Barra, 200 miles from where he currently lives in Glasgow. Watch the documentary and make up your own conclusion. Just an active imagination? Or something much more incredible?

 

 

 

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This experience is from Paul Green – Author, Radio Presenter and Psychic Medium. 

 

A PRIVATE HOME IN BLYTH

I have come across many examples of problems at homes and work places during my mediumship career so far, but a few stands out from the rest, either due to the peculiarity of the activity or the reasons behind it. The first example starts with a tale of me being tracked down that is almost as interesting as the story of the haunting. I used to get collected on a regular basis by the same taxi driver after attending bike club meetings; on the journey to my home, we would chat about this and that but over the months, she learned about my “sideline” as a psychic medium. The conversations would often turn to my gift, nothing remarkable about that until much later in my life. I had moved into my present home and had not encountered this woman since moving, she had changed cab companies and I for various reasons ceased to go to the pub as regularly as i had used to.

It was a great surprise one morning to answer a ring on my doorbell to find her standing on my doorstep. At first I assumed she was simply at the wrong address but then she began asking if I “still did the spooky stuff”. Confirming I did still do “spooky stuff” she asked if I could help out a friend.  It appeared she had somehow tracked me down through a series of links and friends of friends even though I had moved 2 years ago. Once I was over the surprise, I listened to her tale.

A friend of hers was so afraid of the activity in her home she was spending all day wandering the local park or town centre until she had to return home to collect the children from school. After finding out a bit more about the situation, I agreed to visit the house but first I called a fellow medium to sort out a time and date we could both go. In cases such as this, it is normal for mediums to work in pairs, simply as an insurance in case either one is badly effected by any energies encountered.

The day come and we both met outside the address given, it was a typical end terrace house with a nice view over a local park. Upon ringing the bell, we were greeted by a tallish woman with very short hair. Without having to use any psychic sense, you could see the worry etched on her face, the medium accompanying me, a woman called Helen, works differently from me.

Helen always stops on the doorsteps of a home and asks any energy within permission to enter, while I, with my typical “in your face style” charge in with attitude written all over me, once inside we found a group consisting of the woman who had greeted us, her partner from a civil partnership and our mutual friend the taxi driver, as always, i asked that they told us nothing except any areas in the home they do not wish us to go.

I always ask this, as I never forget that we are in someone’s home, in this case, we were given a free reign to go where we wanted. Helen and I at the same time instinctively went upstairs.  As I took the lead, we started to climb the stairs. We encountered an elderly spirit man who attempted to block our path but I insisted he move aside.

I have no idea why he wanted to block us other then maybe he already felt that some “strange people” had already invaded his home and we were just another example. At the top of the stairs on the landing was a bookcase, which we later learned that this man used to move the books around on, this was just one of the ways he was attempting to make his presence known to the rest of the household. Helen and I also discovered that this chap used to like to hover on the step leading into the toilet; he felt he could see most of the coming and going from there. However, apart from this man there were no other spirit energies around i felt sure we had found the source of the problems. Neverless, we still needed to complete our tour of the house to be sure, so Helen and i descended back down to the ground level, this time with Helen taking the lead. She was drawn into a small room at the bottom of the stairs that appeared to be used now as a room to cope with the usual “overspill” of any family. While she went into that room, I popped my head into the front family room; there was nothing really of interest from a mediumship point of view so after a few minutes I returned to the hallway. Helen was stood inside the small room at the bottom of the stairs, she was rooted to the spot and appeared to have some problems breathing. Her breath was coming in short rasping gasps so I wasted no time and simply grabbed her by the collar and dragged her out, sometimes the solution to a paranormal problem does not have to be mystical. She told me that the stench of pipe tobacco and the feeling of being short of breath had been overwhelming in that room.

Once she had recovered we as a pair ventured back into the room, we were greeted by the same old chap we met on the stairs, he then started to talk to us. He was called Charles, not Charlie but Charles, he was very insistent of that. He told us that when he and his wife were both alive moved to Blyth as he was taking up a job at “the docks”, I could not quite gather if this meant Blyth port or the shipyard that used to be there.

He said he was employed as some sort of draughtsman but he was not from the northeast and had moved into the area to take up this job. He was most definitely an in charge style of man and yet very reserved, he did not mix well and he seemed to have a low opinion of the people he worked with in Blyth, therefore, his life while alive revolved around him, his wife and the house we were standing in.

All was well until to his absolute disgust, his wife “died on him”, even as he communicated with us, you could clearly sense the utter bewilderment and loss he felt at the death of his wife. He felt totally abandoned and really did not have the skills to care for himself. As he aged he ended up living, sleeping, eating and existing in the room we were in, the same room Helen had experienced the breathing problems.

As we started to understand and have empathy with this man, he began to ask questions of us. This led us to begin to understand the reason for the recent paranormal activity that had so terrified the present homeowner.  He preferred to address his questions to me for no other reason than the fact i was male. For many years after his death he claimed he liked to pop back to the house, but until now he had not attempted to make his presence known, being happy just to draw comfort from revisiting his home. It seems that what prompted him now to try and get attention was his complete and utter lack of comprehension on the situation.

In short, when the two life partners “married” and moved in together, it seemed he felt he had to make himself known, he was unhappy and did not understand the situation or approve. Even from beyond the grave often we find that people’s personalities do not change, he turned out to be a nice enough guy, but was just bewildered by the situation. Once i explained how upsetting his activities were to the occupants his attitude changed. He had never intended to scare anyone, he simply wanted some answers, in addition, I pointed out that if any of the children living in the property came across any of his activities it would be scary for them.

He was most apologetic and concerned, we reached an agreement that he would still pop back in and see this old home but the visits would be not made ‘public so to speak. After a little more chat and even him asking for assurances that I was not playing a practical joke on him regarding the two women being married, he left the room and house. Helen and I spent a little more time checking there were no other spirit people in the home then we did a standard cleansing of the whole house and added some layers of protection to it. We joined the rest of the people in the kitchen and over a coffee we learned some more of the experiences and events that had caused so much concern.

The owner told of finding the same kitchen chair over turned every time she left the room, no matter if it was for 2 minutes or overnight, it looked as if someone had taken the time to place it in that position rather then it falling or being pushed over. She showed us scrawls using crayons that had appeared overnight on sheets of paper left in a locked room, they started to leave these sheets out because the walls and table tops were being scratched or drawn on. Most of the attempted were just lines or meaningless scratching but some appeared to be crude attempts at forming letter and words, after some more advice Helen and I left the house and to date there has been no further problems with the ex-owner who i feel sure even now is not totally convinced that the whole thing is not the Geordies winding up an outsider.

Like most people who have heard about the recent stabbing in Wisconsin, i am shocked. How can two 12 year old girls justify stabbing someone by saying they were trying to prove that the urban myth Slender Man is real?

Now, the Slender Man post on my blog has been one of my most popular stories, so there is obviously a lot of interest in the myth, but that is exactly what the story is – a myth. I know this, and 99.9% of people who read the story know this.

This horrific attack is the result of poor mental health, not horror stories. Too often in the media, rock music and horror films are blamed as a catalyst for murder and attacks, but as a fan of both rock and horror i can honestly say violence has never crossed my mind. No matter how bad my PMS has got.

It is easier for people to blame something like horror movies, something that can be seen, touched and controlled. “Ban violent films,” people yell in the aftermath of a brutal crime. This should change to “More awareness for mental health issues,” but people want to brush that under the rug. Unlike a movie, mental health cant be categorized quite as easily, cant be subtitled and doesn’t have a synopsis of what exactly is wrong with the person in question.

No, mental health is too complex, just blame the movies.

I love horror movies, i am fascinated by the paranormal and i spend way too much time researching famous killers and cults. However i am grateful to have a relatively healthy mind and can distinguish between right and wrong.

Unfortunately these two girls who committed this crime on the 31st of May were clearly not mentally stable, they needed (and still need) help. We need to focus on the real problem here, lack of access for mental health, not the Slender Man online myth.

These girls would have committed a crime whether or not Slender Man existed. If it wasn’t Slender Man it would have been something else. I am wishing a full recovery to the victim of this crime, but i also hoping for a recovery for the two girls who committed this crime.

I would genuinely love to have a career in the paranormal field. I am currently at the University of Gloucestershire studying journalism but a huge passion of mine is definitely all things weird and wonderful.

I started this blog because i wanted to put my degree to good use and write articles and share interesting content but i am still wondering how i can mix the two interests, journalism and the paranormal, to make a career.

In an ideal world i would be the host of a new fresh ghost investigation show, i personally feel Most Haunted is losing its younger audience and it needs to be refreshed. I don’t like paranormal shows that have big film crews contaminating audio and not giving the viewer the best POV action. This is why i love Ghost Adventures so much, you can, 9 times out of 10, view exactly what Zac, Nick and Aaron are seeing. They can instantly account for any shadows or sounds as it is only the three of them doing the investigation.

I have seen other shows which have a huge film crew and microphone beams and shadows from the producer can be seen in the shot, and i find this distracting. Also, when they see shadows walk past a door how do they know it isn’t, Tom, Dick or Harry on the production crew?!

Back to the point, i want to be the British female Zac Bagans. There arent enough shows fronted by women and especially paranormal shows, the women usually play the role of the frightened side kick jumping at a badger’s fart.

So come on, someone out there must have the connections in production???

Here is a picture of me just to show you how bad ass i am. Well, i am actually a wimp but fear is my favorite emotion……..

 

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This is the Buckley Family. The children’s names were Susan &John. As a Halloween joke, the kids in the neighbourhood were going to get a dummy & pretend to chop its head off. The Buckley children thought it would be hilarious to actually kill their mum, so when the kids walked up the door they got an axe and slaughtered her. Once everyone figured out what they had done, they called the police, but the kids were long gone by then. The only picture of them was this photo, taken by a trick or treater. The mothers body was found half eaten.

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The recent publicity of James Wan’s The Conjuring is creating more and more interest in the story of the woman who inspired the film. The lead character, who is a medium and performs ghost investigations with her husband, is actually based on real life medium Lorraine Warren and her late husband Ed.

Above is the terrifying trailer of The Conjuring, the film has already attained an 8.1 average on IMDB, and everyone knows the ratings are usually harsh to horror films. The buzz about this film is intense, papers are starting to show more interest in the paranormal and interviews with 86-year-old Lorraine are becoming more and more in demand. Here is a link to The Sun’s interview with her:

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/features/5032303/demonologist-lorraine-warren-amityville-horror-conjuring.html

The couple have performed over 4,000 investigations and were even called to investigate the famous Amityville horror house. Another famous haunting that Lorraine investigated that also got turned into a film was A Haunting in Connecticut. Lorraine claims she has seen many dark evil non human entities but is has been her faith that has protected her.

Lorraine and her husband Ed opened up The Occult museum which features actual objects which Lorraine claim are possessed by evil spirits. The Museum even features the Annabelle Doll, which is believed to be possessed by the spirit of a murdered girl.

It is without a doubt that Lorraine is one of Americas most called upon Clairvoyant, and with over 50 years of investigations under her belt she is one of the worlds most experienced. I know who i would want to call if ever i was in the need of an Exorcism.

Lizzie Borden took an axe

And gave her mother forty whacks.

When she saw what she had done

She gave her father forty-one.

Lizzie Andrew Borden was an American woman, from Massachusetts, who was tried and aquitted in the 1892 Axe murders of her father and stepmother. Andrew and Abby Borden were found slaughtered in their home from Axe wounds, and even though many think Lizzie committed the crime, she was free to live her life in Massachusetts and no one was ever charged with the murders.

The Borden house is now a very popular haunted location and shows such as My Ghost Story and Ghost Adventures have increased interest in the house. The website http://lizzie-borden.com/ can tell you more about the house. Some mediums and psychics that have visited the house claim that Lizzie’s father abused her and was the reason that he was killed. No one will ever know what really happened and it is open to much debate. Below are some pictures…..

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Lizzie Borden

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Andrew Borden crime scene

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Abby Borden crime scene